虚杯以待
这次韩寒和刘谦各写了一篇 blog 而之后又隐掉的事情,我是在 greader 从和菜头那看来的。
我喜欢韩寒的直爽,如果有机会认识,我会想去交这样一个朋友。
这次看了刘谦写得这篇 blog ,我发现他也是一个很不错的人呐。
有人问起,“先把杯子里的水倒掉才行” 这个禅宗典故是从哪里来的。我也懒得自己敲了,转一段:
南隐是日本明治时代著名的禅师,他的一杯茶的故事常常为人所津津乐道并予以启发。有一天,一位大学教授特地来向南隐问禅,南隐以茶水招待,他将茶水注入这个访客的杯中,杯满之后他还继续注入,这位教授眼睁睁地看着茶水不停地溢出杯外,直到再也不能沉默下去了,终于说道:“已经满出来了,不要倒了。” "你的心就像这只杯子一样,时面装满了你自己的看法和主张,你不先把自己的杯子倒空,叫我如何对你说禅?"南隐意味深长地说。
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