你认识的每个人终将逝去
虽然很残忍，但是我们每个人都清楚一件事：你认识的每个人，有一天都会死去。
今天母亲打了个电话过来，说一位老人离去了，我唤他叫爷爷的那位。他和我们家没有任何血缘关系，岁数比我的外公大许多，是母亲刚参加工作时的师傅。退休后身体一直很好，鳏居，平日里无人拜访。七十多岁时，还自己骑车去郊外钓鱼。
他唯一的女儿的老公中风也需要人照顾，不能守在身边。我的母亲就时常去看望他。因为老人有气管炎，需要定期服药，母亲就每周帮他去医院开药（由于福利，药是免费的，但是每次不能多拿）。
想来，我的母亲于这位老人，那真算是一日为师，终生为父。几十年的感情，是比亲生女儿还亲的。
每次我有机会回家，母亲都要带我去看望一下老人。记得前两年的时候，他精神颇好，嗓音洪亮中气十足。门口晒晒太阳，读读报纸，聊起天来，那些时政要闻比我知道的还清楚。
去年的时候，已有些糊涂。我见他的时候开始跟我聊解放军解放台湾，打到日本。说是做梦梦见了，煞有其事的样子。可精神还好。
到今年过年再见，已经半坐在床上，不太走动了。请了个保姆在家看护（一开始不舍得花钱，一直不愿意）。见了我只是嘱咐，早点结婚生子，日后可以在退休前看见下一辈成家。
老人走的时候，上个月十八号。那天母亲在我这里，接了个电话。老人住院不肯吃饭，医生护士谁劝都不吃，非要 LCY（母亲的名字）去见他。医院里的人不知 LCY 是何人，叫来他的女儿一问才知道，电话这就拨了过来。妈妈在电话里劝他好好吃饭，明天就回去看他。然后去买了十九号的车票。
但是终将没有见到最后一面。据说老人挂掉电话后，好好的吃了晚餐，沉沉睡去，再也没有醒来。
妈妈在电话里转述了老人临终前对他女儿的嘱咐，“ YY（我的小名）结婚时，一定要包上两千块的红包”。听到这里，我的眼泪一下涌了出来。
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